zoedragon

Or sex with your hand is a good alternative... er, or so I've heard.

calpolyshygirl

thats a good one...ha ha ha

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david90

what class has hot chicks?

zoedragon

I wouldn't advise taking a class just for the women.

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SuperMegStar

David, you will also find many gals do not enjoy being called a "chick." That would make you just the kinda guy we would sit on the OPPOSITE side of the room from.

Postergirl7

OMIGOSH - you guys are soooo funny. To tell you the truth, as a young female (5'9" brunnette and leggy) I know I'm not looking for some smooth talker - and guys don't need to be confident either. I think that when girls say they are looking for "honesty" in a relationship they mean something different. A guy can make himself to appear honest... but that's not it. It's sincerity. It's being able to be honest and mean it - and showing that you mean it.

And I'm sorry, but if your guru for dating is Tom Leykis - you've got some problems. Yeah that guy can buy his chicks.. but I don't think any of you guys really want to "buy" chicks. If you want to find a girl like Tom Leykis gets... go to Hooters, but I guarantee you guys won't be happy with that. Girls attracted to that type are stupid and you would all get bored with that type of girl because she would not be your intellectual equal. (Think about it... is that type of girl really going to sit around while you're toying with your computer?????.. no offense, but I don't think you guys are willing to give that up - NOT FOR ALL THE SEX IN THE WORLD. admit it!

God - you guys should only be as funny and regular as you are on this forum. I love popping in to see what you all are talking about (THE SOY MILK THREAD IS HILARIOUS).

In addition..... I am a fairly attractive girl, but I wouldn't touch a really good-looking guy with a ten-foot pole. I think that smooth talkers and good-looking guys have it to easy and since they have those qualities they don't bother to rely on wit and intellect - what I find the most attractive in a man.

All that we really ask is that you don't have to be Fabio .... just respect yourself. If we know a OK-looking man with great characteristics can treat himself with respect by keeping "clean" we know that he could respect us too.

Back me up on this ZOE.

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david90

Where do you usually hang out? :P

Mike

I wish all the girls were like Postergirl. Lot of girls that I've talked to are very materialistic and trendy bandwagoners.

Mike

No wonder you fail at making friends. Ha!

JPWRana

com 130 (photography)

ews202 (chicano studies class) ==> I had LOTS OF HOT GIRLS THERE!!

usually and G.E. will do... just make sure 2 sit in the right spots... thats what i ALWAYS DO!!!


the KIN classes are good too! In the yoga class... 60-80% are girls!!

JPWRana

that's just on how you use your tone to say it. I call girls chick ALL THE TIME, and they could care less.

If a girl calls me a "dude" I won't cry.

JPWRana

It's the 1st impressions that count THE MOST!!! If he is INTELLECTUAL and HONEST, a girl would NOT be turned of if he says "umm.. i umm... errr... you are pretty and i.... sorry, i'm no good at this but I am a pretty studious person and i hear girls like smart guys and umm...errr" THE GIRL WILL YAWN AND DROP HIM in a nice way (HOPEFULLY!!). Once you get the smooth talking done, THEN you can get into that "sincerity" bs that girls want.

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Guys between 17-27 want only sex... Tom Lekis teaches guys how to do that. He doesn't teach them about relationships... HECK he even says himself he's been divorced 4 times... so what duz that tell u... and how do u even know bout Tom Leykis... if you don't like him, why listen 2 him? Don't say "oh my friends tell me" cuz then your judging him b4 hearing him. Usually authentic beaners are the ones that will GLADLY get married, and so young, and demand soo little in the beauty department from his wife.

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You should see my stereotype thread

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WE BOTH KNOW THAT THE GUY HAS TO BE A SMOOTH TALKER... at least in the very beggining, to catch your attention.... if not, then that means that you met him by someone and were just friends till it grew. If somebody met u on the fly, then you SHOULD expect a smooth talker

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Please refer to MY POST (post #60):

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No need... i covered all ur tracks.


WHEW! i feel like i've written a novel... lol

Admin

Oh my! JPWRana actually posted a decent post.

I believe a lot of this has to do with the phase that we all go through. For example, fresh-out-of-high school girls (or guys) will want to experience the so-called college life. Hence, they join fraternity/sorority, attend college parties, and compete how many dates they can get with their buddies. When few years flow by, they might want to change their prioritize, perspective on a college life, and hopefully their views toward college dating.

Anyways, thank goodness that we all have a different taste.

JPWRana

yeah! i like black hair light skin curvy c-cupped tall latin girls

Ketcham82

This is a funny thread. I wonder what PosterGirl is thinking after reading this. I warned her about you guys.


(By the way, PosterGirl is a friend of mine and she is very beautiful and very intelligent.)

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Ketcham82

Oh I know a lot of girls that are curvy, c-cupped, tall, with black hair and light skin. My gf is one of them.

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JPWRana

I am jealous ketchup man!!!!

zoedragon

Look what happens when I repair leaks instead of frequenting this forum, interesting threads break out and I'm not a part of them! Waaahhh... What can I say that hasn't already been said? I guess just my observations...

I agree with Postergirl in that we want sincere guys, not smooth talkers. We see and define "smooth talkers" as charming guys who will say anything to get what they want, whether what they say is true or not. Dishonesty is distasteful, as is insincerity.

That being said, there is also truth in what the guys are saying. People in general (not just girls) respond better to a person who can hold a conversation. There was one time, back in the day, when I was participating in a small campus forum kind of like this one. One guy's posts seem very intelligent, thoughtful and quite on par with my way of thinking. We emailed back and forth and had long discussions about various things. We decided to meet in person because he seemed interesting. He wasn't scary or anything in person, but he was sooooo obviously uncomfortable with himself that it made me uncomfortable. He spoke in a very quiet voice and in stilted sentences. I'm sure he was nervous, but I've never seen anyone so awkward. It made me feel awkward as well and I just wanted to get out of there. It was so unexpected considering the volumes we were able to "speak" online.

The important thing isn't saying what you think the other person wants to hear (smooth talking), but to be comfortable with yourself. Yes this does include confidence, and it's hard to come by. I myself was a gibbering idiot until I finished high school. Then I started to be aware of what I'd accomplished, what I was capable of doing. I was focusing on what I had and my achievements instead of what I did not or could not do. I started feeling better about myself and it shows. People will notice.

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JPWRana

THANK YOU!!! If he's not a smooth talker, then he'll freak you out. PERFECT EXAMPLE RIGHT THERE!!!

The important thing IS TO GET THE CONVERSATION GOING!!! IF there's awkward silences... she'll lose interest, and your screwed.
Being yourself is total BS. If I WERE MYSELF, a girl would get bored from hearing me talk about how I passed Need for Speed Underground 2, what my strategy's are for getting more frags in Half Life 2, my debates over wich bit torrent sites are better, etc. Girls like 2 hear: gossip, soaps, their LV bags that they wanna get, how that prada bag will look good on them, how that eye shadow matches this better, how they wana go 2 europe 2 vacation this summer, manicures, facials, whose hot in hollywood, celebs, etc. If you talk about that, THEN THE GIRL WILL BE NON STOP TALKING... cuz that's her specialties. WHY DO YOU THINK GIRLS LIKE GAY GUYS AND GUYS DON'T LIKE GAY GUYS? (other than the fact that you don't know if he'll touch your ass)That is where you'll also avoid awkward silences.!!!

Here's a tip: since girls like funny dudes, try 2 make a funny about the things SHE LIKES, that way she can make the connections. Avoid politics, cuz girls (in general, or high maintenance ones) could care less, except for that legally blonde girl.

zoedragon

Geez you and your stereotypes are really quite awful. You REALLY think all girls only like gossip, fashion and other superficial topics? Could you be more offensive? I'm sure you could, but please don't try.

I prefer to discuss video games and computer topics over celebrities and facials ANY DAY. You seem to think that being yourself = being boring to a girl. You might be borig to SOME girls, and fascinating to others. What happens if, after pretending to be someone you're not, she finally finds out the REAL you and is turned off. You just wasted your time. You should've been yourself to begin with. Being yourself doesn't mean being socially incompetent.

Girls, like all humans, come in many different flavors. Some will like what you have to say, others will not. We have all sorts of interests and abilities and cannot be lumped altogether into one collective that is only attracted by deceiving smooth talkers.

You do make one valid statement however: and that's to keep the conversation going. Talk about things that interest you, AND ask what things the girl is interested in. It's how you both get to know each other and find out how compatible you are. If you have nothing in common then there can't be a relationship anyway.

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